I am a consultant in a couple of industry sectors working for myself. I live a fairly normal, middle-class life, living on a fairly normal, middle-class estate.

I do, however have one or two little things that might set me apart from you or your neighbours – but then again, can I or you be sure about that?

I’m a life-long biker and I race motorbikes.

I also have some Goth characteristics and sensibilites although to look at I’m not stereotypically Goth nor even Corporate Goth.

Amongst other things, I design, host and manage web sites for myself and for others. And this now includes owning a subscription web site which features what I think is high-class erotica but which you might call pornography, depending upon your viewpoint. And I take the photos for this site.

I am having an affair… which I’ll tell you a little about in another post.

I have a foot fetish and that covers high heels and ’proper’ nylon stockings - I don’t wear them myself (in case you were wondering), but I love the sight of women wearing them.

The rest of this blog will cover my thoughts and actions and put down what I’m doing and what I’m feeling with a lot more candour than I could elsewhere. It’s a form of catharsis. It’s also a chance for me to blurt out my joy at what I’m experiencing; something I can’t do with family or friends as I need to keep secrets.

Anyway, read on. Enjoy. Try not to judge.

Oh and the default category for posts is “Stuff”. Why? Well to quote the film:

“This isn’t life, it’s just stuff. And it’s become more important to you than living. Well, honey, that’s just nuts.”